Noble and great. Courageous and determined. Faithful and fearless. That is who you are and who you have always been. And understanding it can change your life because this knowledge carries a confidence that cannot be duplicated any other way.― Sheri L. Dew
These are the magical words one should always follow. Self-confidence is nothing but a way of thinking highly of you. That is accepting all your flaws without shame. In short it is away to respect yourself and if you can’t do that no one else can do. We as human have this tendency as we keep ourselves dependent of others appreciation and if denial comes in, we feel sad and deserted. This tendency is common, especially in youngster and even in adults more often. They even try to hurt themselves paving a way to some serious crime. Why there is a need to see ourselves from someone else glasses and why we always have to depend on someone’s approval or denial. There is need to understand that we as a human are capable of doing anything we want and nothing is impossible if we have a strong will to achieve it. It is important to except yourself with all the merits and demerits one comprises of. The way we see ourselves if important and matters the most. It is important to remember that if one can’t think highly of themselves, how on earth you believe someone else to do so.
A seer increase in this tendency has been noticed after the emergence of social media. Posting stuffs that looks happy and fulfilling and afterwards waiting for friends and family appreciation. And if things don’t go the way one expect, it disappoint them.
Three most important thing one should keep in mind are as follow self-confidence, high self-esteem and belief in your abilities.
If one has three trait in life than there is no looking back and nothing can really stop that person from being what he/she wants. These are the fundamental of self-confidence which is required to stay put in this challenging and competitive world. Stop doubting yourself and your abilities. There is nothing a man can’t do; all he needs is a will power to peruse it. Overthinking is only obstruction that hinder progressive attitude. One need to stop being this negative and must try to get rid of it. There is an immediate need to get rid of it.
Follow what your heart and intuition, and the world is yours to slay. Focusing on other suggestion and comment can really affect you, both mentally and physically. So there is need to stop it with immediate effect. Don’t let other judge you by their opinion because it is never going to matter in long run. Keep trying new things to make yourself creative and confident and remember that failure is pillar to success so no need to be afraid of what others think.
The way one project self is more important than merely depending on other thinking and suggestions. Bottom line is building self-confidence and feels great about self.