There were people in my career who seemed determined to fail. Despite mentoring, instruction, gentle correction, and discipline, they consistently chose the low road.What’s the low road? An appetite for excuses, blame, and underperformance. An aversion to personal responsibility.
In an a well known organisation -most employees will want to improve, and they will be open to useful feedback. Some, unfortunately, will always resist.This is frustrating because it takes time to build rapport with them for a life coach.Life coach would always point out their good qualities and successes at work. In short, they will develop trust with him. Yet they refused to own their mistakes or change behavior.
Striving for mediocrity
Any life coach would have watched a fair number of bright and promising employees repeatedly shoot themselves in the foot, thereby killing their prospects for broader career development and promotion.
It is frustrating to see employees with great potential who succumbed to mediocrity and the path of least resistance. Sometimes they were lazy. Other times, they became invested in a perceived wrong. Whatever the reason, they consistently fell short.There’s no judgment here, just disappointment that he was unable to help these employees.
Here are some of the mistakes you want to avoid at work.
You’ve probably heard or read the advice, “Underpromise and overdeliver.” Sounds reasonable, but according to research, it’s not very good advice.I don’t see much harm in overdelivering on promises, but what’s most important is CONSISTENCY in meeting your promises.Employees who can be counted on to consistently follow through on assignments are golden.
In a established career, there will always be a handful of employees who became indispensable, go-to people because they consistently followed through on assignments.Other employees sporadically achieved great things, but they were inconsistent. If you want to stand out at work and not shoot yourself in the foot, worry less about being an occasional superstar and focus more on consistently doing good work.
Emotionally immature employees take things personally, often play the martyr, and fail to take responsibility for their actions.Such individuals cannot work around their feelings to achieve positive outcomes. They expend more energy resisting or fighting things they don’t want to do or disagree with, rather than getting their work done.
For instance – one employee who worked very hard at finding loopholes in our minimum standards of performance. He often did the least work possible and blamed others for his low productivity. The effort he put into resisting work was far more than simply doing his job. Needless to say, he was eventually fired.Focus on doing an honest day’s work for a day’s pay. Don’t shoot yourself in the foot by letting your emotions get the best of you.
There will always be things in life to complain about. No doubt, you know people in your work who grumble endlessly about everything. Ask yourself, how much fun are they to be around?
Successful, well-adjusted people don’t waste energy on negativity. They work around setbacks and obstacles. They don’t quit. They focus on the goal, not the challenges.Don’t be one of those negative souls at work, bringing everyone down. You’ll only shoot yourself in the foot. Optimism can be a force multiplier, whereas negativity can become a cancer at work.
People love to talk about other people, especially when it’s negative. They’ll even do it via text messages.Who are we to talk about others behind their backs? Do we think we are superior to them? Is it fair to judge, when we know little about their backgrounds, circumstances, and struggles?
If you want to shoot yourself in the foot at work, gossip about other people. It won’t take long before others and even your supervisor will figure out that you’re a gossip. And then they’ll think less of you.
We live in an instant gratification world. As a result, we’ve become more impatient.We can order food and have it immediately delivered to our home. With a few clicks and swipes on our phones, we can purchase goods and have them delivered, or hail a ride to take us anywhere we want.
Technology has made our lives easier and brought many conveniences. As a result, we forget that most things of value in life take time to achieve.If you want an athletic body and six-pack abs, it’s not going to happen overnight. It will take many months of regular training and an improved diet.If you want to make more money, you’ll have to invest time and energy in developing rare and valuable skills. That means furthering your education, practicing, and applying your new abilities in ways that get you noticed. All of which takes time and sacrifice.
Impatient employees shoot themselves in the foot because they’re not willing to put in the time and make the sacrifices necessary to grow. Developing patience within yourself will serve you well, in dealing with other people and learning new skills.
All we have is our character
There are many other mistakes you can make at work, like dishonesty, backstabbing, etc. In the end, all we have is our character. Our reputations hinge on our work ethic and how we treat others.
Don’t shoot yourself in the foot with inconsistency, emotional immaturity, negativity, gossip, and impatience.
Embracing hard work, decency, and virtue will take you far in the workplace, and other areas of your life. Best of all, you’ll become a role model for others, which is how we make the world a better place.